YOU ARE NOT YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS: HOW TO FIND YOUR TRUE SELF
Imagine your life as a staircase, where each new step symbolizes not just an accumulation of experience but a qualitative transformation of consciousness. This concept was explored by Robert Kegan, a Harvard University professor and one of the leading thinkers in the field of personal development, often referred to as the "ambassador of human development."
Kegan proved that personal growth does not stop in adulthood — on the contrary, our consciousness continues to evolve, adapting to the challenges of the modern world.
The expectations placed upon us require more than just behavior, acquiring certain skills, or mastering specific knowledge. They require us to work on our minds, change the way we perceive things, and increase the complexity of our consciousness."
Robert Kegan
Consciousness development is not about “leveling up” your skills or accumulating social achievements. It is about changing your way of thinking, which allows you to better understand yourself, your values, and to find meaning beyond conventional boundaries.
Development – a gradual expansion of capabilities, accumulation of knowledge and experience.
Transformation – a fundamental shift in thinking that opens up new perspectives.
Each new level of development does not simply add new competencies; it restructures how we perceive ourselves and the world around us.
The Egocentric Self
(Childhood, Adolescence, and Sometimes Adulthood)
Characteristics:
The Socialized Self
(The Primary Stage for Most Adults)
Characteristics:
The Independent Self
(Transition to Maturity)
The Integrated Self
(High-Level Self-Development)
Characteristics:
The Sacred Self
(Spiritual Enlightenment Level)
Characteristics:
This stage is characterized by profound inner peace and the ability to see divinity in themselves and others. Such individuals become active participants in the harmony of the universe, working towards the well-being of all living beings.
You will better understand yourself and those around you.
You will identify where you currently stand and what you need to grow.
You will realize why some beliefs or situations no longer serve you.